This post is opened for my friend Dee. 🙂 Have a blast hon.
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Yep that makes me Dee and yes it also means that I’m a full figured woman (busty) for this post and yes it IRRITATES the hell out of me that men for the most part don’t see past my chest. Hell some women look at me and think “well she’s only got this job because she’s sleeping with someone or someone gave it to her”….I mean god forbid they actually REALIZE I have a COLLEGE EDUCATION. Yes that’s right people, women who have large breast (and I mean anything over a D cup) have the ability to go to college and learn and actually earn a degree in something as difficult as oh let’s say LAW!!! I know OMG the SHOCK of it all, what has the world come to.
NO, every woman who has large breast doesn’t have the IQ of a turnip, now I realize that’s hard for oh I don’t know 99% of the public to understand but I assure you it’s true. For example my mother who by the way is also busty has 2, count them, 2 degrees. Does that make her one of the 7 wonder’s of the world? NO it just makes her intelligent but do men and women see past the fact that she’s 1. older 2. intelligent female and 3. busty? Hell no. For some reason those seem to be handicaps so when she’s trying to survive in today’s world coming from a generation where women were supposed to get married and raise children and not work outside of the home where does that leave her? Do you think that she gets the respect she deserves? Of course not.
I’m another prime example. I’m full breasted yes I admit it but does that mean I don’t have a brain? Does that mean that you as men should not see beyond the V in my shirt? Shouldn’t you actually look UP to where my eyes are when you’re talking to me? Riddle me this WHAT IS THE ATTRACTION OF CLEAVAGE????? I mean every second person in the world has it so what’s the big freakin deal here? They are misshapen come in every size and color known to man and still you as men are fascinated by them why is that?
Shouldn’t you as women look at me and see another woman who’s gotten to where she is in life because I have an education and god forbid I’m actually GOOD at my job? Not because I’m full busted? Why do you automatically (and this goes for men as well) think the worst of us? Hell even department stores and clothing manufactures dismiss us.
I challenge any man or woman who reads this site to go into a Victoria Secret store in their town and find out for yourselves what the largest size bra they carry and I assure you the size will be about 4 sizes smaller than what I wear. Now I ask you is that fair? HELL NO it’s not fair, but that’s the world that we as large busted women live in.
Grow up people they are not some anomaly from another planet. They [breasts] give food to your children, your mother’s and sisters, cousins and aunts all have them so from now on when you look at a woman who has large breast…remember that and remember this post and do yourself a favor don’t label her as a bimbo actually LOOK her in the eye and get to know her you just might be surprised to find a very intelligent loving woman carrying around those breasts.
Thank you Rocket …
Great Post Dee!
Unfortunately this is one of the reasons why our society is considered in its infancy of development. Human beings are by nature, visually oriented and sexually driven. Only those people who have accepted our nature and found cause to develop a mentality and maturity beyond our core nature, are able to look past this issue you stated and found there is a person under the skin.
I for one wont deny my nature and am happy that I still have a healthy sex drive, however we all have a choice to be in control of our self and can choose to grow past the shallowness of physical attraction in order to discover what is truly important in a person. This equates to a time and place for everything and a maturity to handle our self in a proper manner.
Not to throw fuel on the fire, but the sad truth of the matter is, the male population is going to be the least mature and the most under-developed in this area. However, all things for a reason and if it were not for this particular offset, our population might dwindle to dangerous levels.
I don’t see a solution to the issue you describe, however, It might be funny if you threw a little humor into it and when a guy talks to your chest, stoop down a little and talk to the part of his body doing the thinking and see how he likes it 🙂
Wow – I see your points already discussed. I’ve found that most guys still look at any form of clevage, even when its obvious that its been created by an a) too small bra or b) on purpose.
I’ve managed to escape the trap of guys looking at my chest by simply forgetting it exists. I had the intriguing discovery that when weight is lost, the back size of a bra goes down and the cup size goes up, which meant that my few bras were changed not long after I went to uni.
It was a shock to find i was into the DD category, when I still see myself as something small – maybe this is a reason I dont catch guys looking since I just … i dunno… emphasise it.
I dress conservatively normally, and I dont come across as a kind of girl guys will take looks at since I’m a tad intimidating by my course (I’m still at the stage where guys ask what course I’m doing at uni – when you say Civil Engineering, they turn away and go for the “dippy” blonde flat mate of yours (or maybe the malteaser …))
Anyways – I found that when I had to wear a suit for a presentation, my group commented on how i looked … mainly the fact that I looked like a woman even in trousers.
I know guys look, but maybe its partly to do with the fact that conciously or sub conciously the woman wants them to look?
(no offense intended Dee)
I know that when I wear “smart” tops with heels and trousers, I get more comments on my appearance, and my boyfriend sometimes gets caught taking a not so sneaky peek.
But maybe its the fact that we, as a sex, are endowed with breasts, and the ones with larger sets are considered sexier by the men who look at us?
But maybe, for once, guys should learn to look upwards – maybe then we wont be forced to look downwards at the lump in the “pocket” of their jeans.
I realise now ive not made any other comment to this comment – sorry for rambling on.
Personally, I think sexy is as sexy does (or speaks), but everyone is different. It’s one thing to look, (a quick glance) but it is totally different to stare. All it does is reflect on the person doing it. Being visual creatures, we wont stop looking, but there is a very definite message in how we handle our self in the process.
If we project maturity, act mature, chances are better that we are mature. Body language is 60% communication. If you read the body language, you learn so much more about a person’s true intentions.
Dear D Stewart,
I know a couple of attractive women that have (Natural) DD breasts. They dress in such a way (daily) that does not enhance their breasts. They are conservative women that are intelligent, well spoken, friendly, positive and very down to Earth.
These women are a great example of propriety. There will always be men and women alike that pay special attention to women with large breasts. This is just and unfortunate human trait (to/for some). As far as you being a ‘Degreed Woman of Bustiness’, “Congrats”, you did your hard work and EARNED it.
I live near the beach in California, as such, I see many women in their swimsuits, year ’round. There are bikinis, and there are oversized dental floss appendages.
If I have heard it once, I have heard it a thousand times from a woman to an ogling guy, “My eyes are UP HERE!” THAT being said by a women in a bikini with nothing but her nipples (barely) covered. BTW, these women are students at UCLA, USC, etc. A few are alumni with multiple degrees INCLUDING Summa and Magna Cum Laude Honors.
Where you say “WHAT IS THE ATTRACTION OF CLEAVAGE?????”, well, it probably ultimately stems from the fact that the very food of life itself, mothers milk, is contained in the mammary glands that form the ‘V’ you speak of, much to your chagrin.
Perhaps it’s as simple as this; the larger the breasts, the larger the containers that that hold the life giving mothers milk. In other words, Bigger Is Better, More Is Better, Big Breasts=More Milk, More Milk=More Life, et al.
There is a reason for (mostly) men considering themself as a ‘Leg Man’, ‘Breast Man’, etc. Eye candy is eye candy, each to their own, right? Then again, maybe you just hang around pervs D. Wink wink.